"We women have a very specific vision about things we're invested in; gifts, decorations or the way to set a table. But we rarely want to take the time to be that specific with our partners. We want them to be psychic."
Kaiser says that leaves us with three choices:
- Let it go and allow him to do it his way.
- Give specific detailed instructions and relax. If it's not perfect, deal with it.
- Do it yourself. But if you choose this option, don't complain that it's all on your shoulders.